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Thứ Ba, 14 tháng 5, 2013

New Orleans police identify suspect in Mother's Day parade shooting

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    May 13, 2013: New Orleans Police Superintendent Ronal Serpas present a photo of 19-year-old Akien Scott who is wanted in the Mother's Day shootings during a news conference in front of police headquarters in New Orleans.AP

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    In this image taken from video and provided Monday, May 13, 2013, by the New Orleans Police Department, a possible shooting suspect in a white shirt, bottom center, shoots into a crowd of people, Sunday in New Orleans. Police believe more than one gun was fired in the Mother's Day gunfire that wounded 19 people during a New Orleans neighborhood parade.AP/NOPD

Police late Monday identified a 19-year-old man as a suspect in the shooting of about 20 people during a Mother's Day parade in New Orleans, saying several people had identified him as the gunman captured by surveillance camera videos.

Superintendent Ronal Serpas said officers were looking for Akein Scott of New Orleans. He said it was too early to say whether he was the only shooter.

"We would like to remind the community and Akein Scott that the time has come for him to turn himself in," Serpas said at a news conference outside of police headquarters.

A photo of Scott hung from a podium in front of the police chief. "We know more about you than you think we know," he said.

The mass shooting showed again how far the city has to go to shake a persistent culture of violence that belies the city's festive image. Earlier, police announced a $10,000 reward and released blurry surveillance camera images, which led to several tips from the community.

"The people today chose to be on the side of the young innocent children who were shot and not on the side of a coward who shot into the crowd," Serpas said.

The superintendent said SWAT team members and U.S. marshals served a searched warrant at one location looking for Scott, but didn't locate him.

He vowed that police would be "looking for Akein Scott for the rest of the night and tomorrow... and I would strongly recommend that Akein turn himself in."

Angry residents said gun violence -- which has flared at two other city celebrations this year -- goes hand-in-hand with the city's other deeply rooted problems such as poverty and urban blight. The investigators tasked with solving Sunday's shooting work within an agency that's had its own troubles rebounding from years of corruption while trying to halt violent crime.

"The old people are scared to walk the streets. The children can't even play outside," Ronald Lewis, 61, said Monday as he sat on the front stoop of his house, about a half block from the shooting site. His window sill has a hole from a bullet that hit it last year. Across the street sits a house marked by bullets that he said were fired two weeks ago.

"The youngsters are doing all this," said Jones, who was away from home when the latest shooting broke out.

Video released early Monday shows a crowd gathered for a boisterous second-line parade suddenly scattering in all directions, with some falling to the ground. They appear to be running from a man in a white T-shirt and dark pants who turns and runs out of the picture.

Police were working to determine whether there was more than one gunman, though they initially said three people were spotted fleeing from the scene. Whoever was responsible escaped despite the presence of officers who were interspersed through the crowd as part of routine precautions for such an event.

Police said in a news release Scott has previously been arrested for illegal carrying of a weapon, illegal possession of a stolen firearm, resisting an officer, contraband to jail, illegal carrying of a weapon while in possession of a controlled dangerous substance and possession of heroin.

It was not immediately clear whether he had been convicted on any of those charges.

"Akein is no stranger to the criminal justice system," Serpas said.

Serpas said that ballistic evidence gathered at the scene was giving them "very good leads to work on."

Witness Jarrat Pytell said he was walking with friends near the parade route when the crowd suddenly began to break up.

"I saw the guy on the corner, his arm extended, firing into the crowd," said Pytell, a medical student.

"He was obviously pointing in a specific direction; he wasn't swinging the gun wildly," Pytell said.

Pytell said he tended to one woman with a severe arm fracture -- he wasn't sure if it was from a bullet or a fall -- and to others including an apparent shooting victim who was bleeding badly.

Three gunshot victims remained in critical condition Monday, though their wounds didn't appear to be life-threatening. Most of the wounded had been released from the hospital.

It's not the first time gunfire has shattered a festive mood in the city this year. Five people were wounded in a drive-by shooting in January after a Martin Luther King Jr. Day parade, and four were wounded in a shooting after an argument in the French Quarter in the days leading up to Mardi Gras. Two teens were arrested in connection with the MLK Day shootings; three men were arrested and charged in the Mardi Gras shootings.

The shootings are bloody reminders of the persistence of violence in the city, despite some recent progress.

Last week, law enforcement officials touted the indictment of 15 people in gang-related crimes, including the death of a 5-year-old girl killed by stray gunfire at a birthday party a year ago.

The city's 193 homicides in 2012 are seven fewer than the previous year, while the first three months of 2013 represented an even slower pace of killing.

On Monday night, 100 to 150 people gathered for a unity rally and peace vigil in the wake of Sunday's shootings. Some residents stood in their doorways or on their steps. At one point, trumpeter Kenneth Terry played, "O For a Closer Walk With Thee."

Robin Bevins, president of the ladies group of the Original Four Social Aid and Pleasure Club, said she and members of her organization came to the rally to show solidarity.

"This code of silence has to end," said Bevins, who's also a member of the city's Social Aid Task Force. "If we stand up and speak out, maybe this kind of thing will stop."

Amy Storper, who lives in a neighborhood near where the shooting happened, brought her 7-year-old son William to the rally.

"I felt the need to come out and show my support, to let people in this neighborhood know that people care," she said. "Perhaps if the whole city showed up, all 300,000, then maybe we can make a difference."

Mayor Mitch Landrieu walked into the area, greeting people, shaking hands and stopping to talk with some residents before addressing the crowd.

"We came back out here as a community to stand on what we call sacred ground," Landrieu said. "We came here to reclaim this spot. This shooting doesn't reflect who we are as a community or what we're about."

Leading efforts to lower the homicide rate is a police force that's faced its own internal problems and staffing issues. At about 1,200 members, the department is 300 short of its peak level.

Serpas, the chief since 2010, has been working to overcome the effects of decades of scandal and community mistrust arising from what the U.S. Justice Department says has been questionable use of force and biased policing. Landrieu and Serpas have instituted numerous reforms, but the city is at odds with the Justice Department over the cost and scope of more extensive changes.

Landrieu's administration initially agreed to a reform plan expected to cost tens of millions over the next several years. But Landrieu says he wants out now because Justice lawyers entered a separate agreement with Orleans Parish Sheriff Marlin Gusman over the violent and unsanitary New Orleans jail -- funded by the city but operated by Gusman.

The site of the Sunday shooting -- about 1.5 miles from the heart of the French Quarter -- showcases other problems facing the city. Stubborn poverty and blight are evident in the area of middle-class and low-income homes. Like other areas hit hard by Hurricane Katrina in 2005, the area has been slower to repopulate than wealthier areas. And Landrieu's stepped up efforts to demolish or renovate blighted properties -- a pre-Katrina problem made worse by the storm -- remain too slow for some.

Frank Jones, 71, whose house is a few doors down from the shooting site, said the house across from him has been abandoned since Katrina. Squatters and drug dealers sometimes take shelter there, he said.

A city code inspector, who declined to be interviewed, was there Monday

"It's too late," Jones said. "Should have fixed it from the very beginning. A lot of people are getting fed up with the system."


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Chủ Nhật, 12 tháng 5, 2013

A husband's tribute to his wife on Mother's Day

I went to my girlfriend’s apartment.  She opened the door and the smell of bacon came pouring out.  There were two pounds of bacon in her oven.  At the time, I did not know you could cook bacon en masse in the oven.  Likewise, I had no idea what any one person needed two pounds of bacon for.

“Oh I don’t,” she told me. “I need the drippings.”

We were married within a year.

It has not been the easiest time — now almost thirteen years. Within three months of marriage, both of us at twenty-five, she had a double mastectomy and I my own lesser surgeries. It was a novel way to start a marriage.  

But now we have two wonderful children who always delight and surprise us. Our great controversy now is whether to finally tell the seven year old it is “route guidance” and not “Ralph guidance.” It is so endearing, but she cannot figure out why Ralph has a female voice. The four year old presents his own, all boy, problems. Waking Dad up at sunrise by body slamming is not as appealing as it might sound. Just the other day he surmised that if the sandman leaves sand in your eyes at night, the boogie man must be responsible for the boogers in your nose.

Through it all I travel a great deal. Last month, according to Delta, I traveled 13,500 miles. While I am away, my wife is the full time mother hen. She is ever present in the kids’ lives. Even when I am home, I work three jobs so she can be home with the kids. They bake, they play outside, she sews an assortment of clothes, quilts, and travel bags. She shuttles them to school, ukulele lessons, and doctors’ appointments.

While carrying our now four year old, my wife decided she needed exercise. She took up skateboarding. Her doctor was impressed. A few weeks ago, having spent the last few years growing her hair out, she cut it off, gave it locks of love, and came home with some not very subtle purple highlights. It was actually pretty awesome.

Some moms join the junior league and introduce their children to high society. Some moms let their children run wild through the woods and streets. My children are fortunate to have a mom who rides her skateboard with them, sits out under a tress sewing binding onto quilts she’s made while the kids play, and makes homemade buttermilk biscuits as an ultimate comfort food. When she has quiet time, the sounds of the sewing machine fill the house, interspersed the with the subtle sound of hands on a keyboard as she searches Pinterest for new projects, catches up with friends on Facebook, or browses the Pioneer Woman’s website for new recipes.

The kids’ drawings have been turned to needlepoint creations as teachers’ gifts. Our bedspread is homemade. Our garden delivers the herbs she planted for our food, along with assorted kinds of mint for juleps. I had to start going to a trainer because of her cooking. The other day talking to Governor Perry of Texas, she overheard me ask him why something in Texas was so great. Without missing a beat, she answered for him, “Because they all pack heat.”  This is the wife who, a few years ago, only wanted a shotgun for Christmas. She wants to go shoot skeet with the governor of Texas and get another tattoo with her friends from church. Now she has the kids all wanting motorcycles, so long as she too can have one. That may be a bridge too far in our relationship.

My wife is my partner and the manager of the household while I am in front of a television camera or behind a microphone or keyboard. With her I have learned that the process of marriage is not about being happy, but about becoming one soul together. We become, slowly and sometimes with difficulty, an extension of each other hoping to draw out each other’s better nature.

I worked late Wednesday night. Up before the sun or the rooster and not done until the sun had set, barely seeing the kids or my wife though my office and studio for television and radio are all behind sound proof doors in our own home, I finally finished all I had to do. I opened the sound proof doors and the smells of home cooking poured in.  

There in the kitchen, at the end of the day and darkness settling in outside, was a pile of homemade biscuits, grits, a bigger pile of bacon, and pajama clad smiles from the little ones. Breakfast for supper is comfort food in our house. It would not have happened but for my wife, my best friend, and my children’s mother — all one person indispensable to my children and me.

Erick Erickson is a Fox News contributor and editor of RedState.com.  Follow him on Twitter @EWErickson.


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As many as 19 injured in shooting at New Orleans Mother's Day parade

DEVELOPING: New Orleans police are searching for three suspects Sunday after at least 12 people were shot during a Mother’s Day parade.

Chief Serpas announced in a press conference that the youngest victim is believed to be a 10-year-old girl.  Police say she suffered a graze wound, WVUE Fox 8 reported.

Police say about 300 were attending the traditional jazz band parade when shots were fired.

Serpas said that the procession had been accompanied by officers, who saw two or three suspects run from the scene in the city's 7th Ward.

Nobody has been arrested. It's unclear what sparked the gunfire.

Eleven patients have been admitted to Interim LSU Public Hospital with no life threatening injuries, hospital spokesperson Marvin McGraw said.

Second-line parades are loose processions in which people dance down the street, often following behind a brass band. They can be impromptu or planned and are sometimes described as moving block parties.

A social club called The Original Big 7 organized Sunday's event.

No other information was immediately available.

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Thứ Năm, 9 tháng 5, 2013

The Mother's Day gift I will keep forever

Every year when Mother’s Day approaches, children and dads begin their search for the perfect gifts to show their moms how much they care.

With three little boys, I’ve been the recipient of many gifts. Some have been thoughtful, some have been unusual, and some have made me laugh.

Many of those gifts are in my treasure chest of cherished keepsakes. There are handwritten gift certificates for five-minute back rubs, washcloths with tiny painted handprints captured for a lifetime, and adorable handmade cards and letters drawn just for me.

I arrived at the store in time to see my husband helping our three-year-old, Jason, pay for his purchase.

One gift in particular, though, is etched into my heart.

My husband and I wanted to teach our sons about the joy of giving, so at an early age they began earning the money to buy their gifts. Of course a toddler can’t do big-boy jobs, but we gave them age-appropriate tasks such as picking up their toys. We had fun watching their excitement as they saved their money for the big shopping day.

On the way to the mall, I pretended not to listen as the boys whispered about what they planned to buy. “Mama, you’ll have to go to another part of the mall while we shop so you won’t see what we buy for you,” my oldest son piped up.

We agreed to meet at a particular store in an hour, and my husband headed into the mall with three excited little boys clutching their shopping money.

I arrived at the store in time to see my husband helping our three-year-old, Jason, pay for his purchase. I stepped back where he couldn’t see me so I wouldn’t ruin his surprise.

While his dad waited for the receipt, Jason sat down on the floor holding his prized purchase. As I watched, enjoying the animated expression on his sweet little face, he opened the new billfold, pulled the last dollar bill out of his pocket, carefully folded it and placed it inside.

Twenty-five years have passed and I no longer have the billfold, but I still have that dollar bill, and the memory of my precious little boy tucking love into that billfold will remain with me forever.

And every time I look in the scrapbook where I have that dollar—folded just like he gave it to me—I am reminded once again that every day as a mom has been God’s special gift to me.

I hope you’ll join me on my blog at www.MichelleCoxInspirations.com and on my Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/MichelleCoxInspirations for stories, recipes, helpful tips, recipes, and encouragement with a Southern drawl. 


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Thứ Tư, 8 tháng 5, 2013

We don't need 'perfect' moms -- we need good enough mothers

Who is a perfect mother? The mother in our memory who took care of us, cooked our favorite food, and comforted us when we were down.

On the other hand, she wasn’t that perfect either, because she made us do things we didn’t want to do and sometimes criticized us for what we did do.

Still, that “perfect mother” is the one the beautiful cards are written about, and the one we send flowers to on Mothers’ Day.

Many mothers today are trying to be that perfect mother of everyone’s imagination, even though the job of mother has changed a lot in recent years.

There is no perfect mother – or perfect child.  A good enough mother is good enough!

More than ever mothers are working at jobs outside the home, even while having to do the jobs she has always done at home.

Besides, the world has changed for children, too, who now have a vast TV universe, computers, and all kinds of technology that expose them to things which in the past mother might have protected them from. Keeping children safe is a much harder job than it used to be.

Still, mothers try very hard to do everything right for their children. It’s hard to know what that is when there are constantly new ideas about how to raise children.

Once upon a time families lived together, or near each other. Grandmothers and aunts helped new moms and taught them what the best way was to do things for children. These days, there is also science -- there is child development research, brain research, genetic research, all of which end up telling mothers what they should be doing and how they should be doing it.

Raising children has been turned into a science, and mothers are trying to be scientists doing everything perfectly.

This has made for added stress for both mothers and children.

But there is no perfect mother – or perfect child. A good enough mother is good enough! If we can accept being good enough ourselves, it will help us accept our children as good enough – not perfect.

What is a good enough mother? A good enough mother is someone who does the best she can in her own particular circumstances. She may not be able to do everything she would like to do – or her children would like her to do – but that’s all right.

Our goal as parents should not be to create a perfect world for our children. That is not the world they are growing up in, or will have to function in.

Mothers want their children to be happy. Trying to make children happy all the time is not good for them or us. 

It leads us to buy things for them that we can’t afford, and do things for them against our better judgment. It leads children to believe they should have whatever they want – in order to make them happy. 

More importantly, in trying to make them happy no matter what, we are not helping them learn how to deal with the fact that life has disappointments, and that they can survive those disappointments.

It is hard for mothers to see their children disappointed – or even angry at mom for those disappointments. But being a good enough mother means accepting a child’s frustration or disappointment – and anger – just as her child is learning to do so.

Being a good enough mother means being someone who at times blows up at her kids. 

Someone who is sad at times, or preoccupied with other worries when her kids may want her attention. 

In other words, she is a real person who accepts all her feelings, even her feelings of guilt – which doesn’t mean she is a bad mother. She knows she is only human, and knowing that, she can accept her children and their failings as only human, too.

Mothers know that others – not only their children – want them to be perfect. They get a lot of criticism when what they need is praise. 

We need to let them know that they are doing a good job – that they are good enough mothers in the best sense.

So on Mothers’ Day, don’t send a card to an imagined mother. Send the gift of your praise to a real mother.

Dr. Elaine Heffner, LCSW, Ed.D, is a psychotherapist and parent educator. She has written for Redbook, Parents Magazine, and Disney online, as well as others. Heffner is the author of  “Good Enough Mothering” and a Senior Lecturer of Education in Psychiatry at Weill Cornell Medical College. She also co-founded and served as Director of the Nursery School Treatment Center at Payne Whitney Clinic, New York Hospital. For more find her on Facebook , follow her on Twitter @ElaineHeffner and visit her blog: goodenoughmothering.com.


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Padma Lakshmi: Mother’s Day is a Thanksgiving of spring

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When it comes to Mother’s day celebrations, everyone loves the delicious and bountiful tradition of brunch.

Padma Lakshmi, the beautiful host of Bravo’s "Top Chef" and mother of 3-year-old daughter Krishna, says Mother’s Day brunch is a great time to get all of your family together to share good food and family memories.

“Take out your family photo albums and put them out on your coffee table,” Lakshmi said. “Encourage your guests to talk about the history of your family and the family traditions that they remember growing up with.”

Recipe: Spanish Tortilla Cake

Recipe: White Sangria 

Padma’s First Mother’s Day

Lakshmi reminisced back to her first mother’s day when she gathered around her closest friends and family for lunch. After years of struggling with endometriosis, a painful uterine condition, Lakshmi’s pregnancy was called a ‘medical miracle’.

“I had such different circumstances around the birth of my daughter. On my first Mother’s Day I honored my cousin. I bought him a present and got up during lunch and said I want to thank you,” Lakshmi said.

Lakshmi says she couldn’t have made it through it all without her family’s help.

“I think it’s really important to remember that we are parented by a lot of people in our lives. From my cousin taking me to my sonogram appointments to my mother coming to live with me while I was bed ridden, they were all there for me when I needed them most,” she said.

A Table Full of Generations

When your family table speaks for more than one generation it can be tough to find something for everyone but Lakshmi, the author of two cookbooks, says putting together a healthy menu for everyone at your table can be done.

“I don’t believe in being a short order cook, we all eat the same thing in this house,” Lakshmi said.

Yet Lakshmi does suggest that if you know a guest has special dietary restrictions, like avoiding meat or heavy salted foods, then you should try to offer alternatives.

“Whenever I’m hosting I try to remember who I’ve invited and what their preferences are,” Lakshmi said. “You may want to under salt things if someone has salt limitations as you can always put salt on the table for those who want to add more.”

Most of Lakshmi’s family is vegetarian (which she is openly not) but being the gracious host that she is, Lakshmi likes to please the ones she loves.

“At first it was hard to collate that meal, but I’ll make sides that cater to everyone and have a main meat dish along with a vegetarian option as well.” Lakshmi said. “You could easily do a white bean dish or a black eyed peas dish with a little pumpkin or zucchini, something that feels hearty. It’s also really easy to do a lentil salad with chopped bell peppers and apples with a light lemon juice and oil dressing,  it feels cool and refreshing.”

A Healthier Sweet-tooth

You won’t find this celebrity chef in line for a brunch drizzled with sweet sugary syrups and crispy fried fat-traps.

“I personally don’t like waffles and sugary things for breakfast. Why not do a yogurt parfait with beautiful cut fruit and yogurt. You can sprinkle in some raw sugar with a dash of cinnamon for a little extra touch of sweetness.”

If your mom enjoys something more on the sweeter side then try to keep it lighter.

“If you love pancakes I would opt for the crepe, it’s much thinner and then you can fill it with some stewed fruit or baked apples. And rather than adding whip cream to it you can add a dollop of vanilla yogurt instead,” Lakshmi added.

Remember It’s Your Party Too

Although hosting a Mother’s day brunch might seem like a culinary challenge only for the pros, Lakshmi says to remember that the idea is to enjoy the time with your loved ones. If your guests feel like you’re stressed, it will stress them out too.

“You don’t want your guests to arrive and you’re all frazzled, so select a menu that 75 percent of it can be made ahead of time,” Lakshmi said. “You could do a simple roast chicken and a lentil stew the night before so that all you’re doing is warming them up the next day before your guests arrive.”

One of Lakshmi’s favorite stress-free dishes to make is a Spanish tortilla. 

She says the inexpensive meal is easy to make with just a few ingredients; eggs, sautéed onions and potatoes. Best of all, it can be served at room temperature so you don’t have to worry about reheating it or serving it as soon as it comes off of the skillet.

“It’s a holiday like Thanksgiving, you don’t look at your email, you don’t answer your cell, it’s about stopping what you’re doing to spend time with your family. Mother’s day to me is like a Thanksgiving of spring.”

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Chủ Nhật, 5 tháng 5, 2013

Single mother's simple error earns her $14 million lottery prize

At the intersection of Fate and Lotto, Thuan Le made a very fortunate error.

The California single mother of four is thanking her lucky stars after mistakenly slipping an extra dollar into the self-service Lotto machine at her local CVS store in Mission Viejo.

That superfluous dollar wound up getting Le the SuperLotto Plus ticket holding the five winning numbers -- 5, 33, 25, 46, 32 -- plus the Mega number, 26, selected randomly in the April 24 drawing.

In all, Le won a $14 million jackpot.

“Thuan Le is a hardworking single mother of four sons,” according to a release from the California Lottery.

“She is also very excitable. In fact, when she ran her SuperLotto Plus ticket through the terminal and realized she had won a $14 million jackpot, she ran screaming out of the store!”

Le reportedly plans to buy a house, travel, and visit her parents in Vietnam with the proceeds.

According to the lottery website, Le and a friend would normally go together and buy their lottery tickets at the same time. But on that fateful April day, Le went by herself to purchase her usual $4 worth of POWERBALL® and $1 in SuperLotto Plus.

“She accidentally put $6 in the self-service terminal and bought her tickets,” the lottery reported. “When she realized she still had $1 in credit, she thought, ‘I might as well get another SuperLotto Plus ticket.’ That sixth ticket was the winner.”

It had been approximately a month – and eight unsuccessful drawings -- since anyone picked all six numbers to win the SuperLotto Plus jackpot when Le won the grand prize, according to a local Patch.com website.

 The odds of winning are about 1 in 42 million, according to the California lottery.


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